2023年5月6日 星期六

Don'ts of Dating A Trans Woman


Well, dating someone can be easy at times but being able to win her heart and not hurting her sentiments is kinda difficult when it comes to dating a trans woman. There are a plenty of things you can do to impress her but there are also so many things you should not do to impress her. So here we are providing you a few things you should not do while dating a transgender woman.

Do not call her by funny names

Do not call her by any funny name that may relate to her transgender identity. Call her trans directly if you want to but do not try to make fun of her identity by calling her by a funny name.

Do Not Treat Her With Any Less RESPECT YOU WOULD GIVE ANY CISGENDER GIRL

Look may be she is not physically same to a cis girl but she is a woman. She has a heart like all other girls and she got emotions. You should respect her. She deserves the love and respect any other woman do. They are worth the love and care you would give to any cisgender girl.

Do Not Ask Her Questions About Trans Sexuality

Remember she might be your trans date but she is not a gender professor. She is not there with you to answer your questions about their sexuality or clear your doubts. Do not do that kind of a stupidity. Do not make her feel uncomfortable by doing that kind of a thing. Trans woman get so frustrated from such a thing when wants to enquire them about their sexuality specially on a hookup date. That's stupidity. When she will spend time with you and be comfortable with you on the later stage of your relationship she will tell you all by her herself. So please don't do that while beginning things with her.

DO NOT ASK ABOUT OUR SURGERIES

Do not ask her anything like that. What kind of body changes she had and how. That’s not your task. Why would you do that? She will be frustrated if you ask her something like that. Do not make her think you as a jerk or sex addict like person. Just stay calm and let her tell you anything she wants to with time.

Ask her hobbies and simple questions

Instead of indulging in any serious conversation try to ask her simple questions like what's her favourite time passing activity or her hobbies. She will be happy if you make her talk to you and it will show that you are interested in her and she might meet you again and feel happy to spend time with you more often.

Ask her about career and future goals

This will show that you really care about her. Encourage her to pursue her goals and make a better future aim and live with pride and happiness. This kind of talk will make a really good impression on her and she will be interested in talking to you more and more.